TMI Tuesday #175

TMI Tuesday #175

1. What do find is the most exciting part of a new sexual encounter? The unknown. There’s something thrilling about NOT knowing someone’s routine. You never know what’s going to come next.

2. Do you have “a most exciting part of a sexual encounter” with a usual partner? When touches my pussy for the first time after having gotten me very turned on.

3. How open and honest are you about your life with someone you just met? I’m a fairly private person. I don’t tell my life story the moment I meet them.

4. How open and honest are you about your life with someone you work with? Again, I’m a fairly private person. I have honest conversations with co-workers, but that doesn’t mean they know every detail of my life.

5. How open and honest are you about your life with a casual acquaintance who lives in your neighborhood (or the parent a your child’s friend or…)? I’m honest, but not necessarily open. My neighbors know what I do for a living, but they’re not privy to every detail of my life.

TMI Tuesday #174

TMI Tuesday #174

1. What is your favorite charity? Do you you give your time or just money to that charity? I have one charity that gets most of my time & money. (I won’t name it specifically because it’s not that big and my work is pretty prominent.) But I support a number of causes, including a couple academic institutions, charities that do work with women & children, my church and a few animal-welfare organizations.

2. Describe your bed. What side do you sleep on? Queen sized. Great sheets, lots of pillows. I sleep on the right side. (Or the left, depending on how you want to look at it.)

3. How important is a partners kissing ability? Very!

4. Have you ever “taken advantage” of a person under the influence of alcohol? Have you ever been “taken advantage” of while under the influence of alcohol? Yes to both. But I can put up a good fight if I need to, even if I’m under the influence.

5. Ever tried to replay the famous scene from From Here to Eternity? How was it? Nope, never. (I don’t even know if I’ve seen the movie.)

Bonus (as in optional): What kind of birth control do you use? The pill.

TMI Tuesday #173

TMI Tuesday #173

1. What do you think is the un-sexiest part of the body? I think every body part has its appeal.

2. Toilet paper: over, under, or what the hell are you talking about? Under

3. Have you ever called in sick to stay in bed with a sexual partner? Not that I recall.

4. Did your parents have a “birds & bees” talk with you? If so, at what age? Not that I remember, though my parents would probably say we did have it.

5. What is one thing a someone could do to you to rock your world? Tell me he loves me (and mean it)!

TMI Tuesday #172

TMI Tuesday #172

1. When you sleep with someone, how much or how little contact do you like to have? Not sure if this is referring to physical or emotional contact, but I want a lot of both. I don’t do well with casual sex.
2. What do you think is a appropriate amount of time for a divorce parent to date before introducing the kids to the “new” “special” person in their life? It depends on a lot of factors. If I were a divorced parent, I’d only introduce my child (young or old) to a man I was dating exclusively and expected to remain in a relationship with.
3. Which ONE thing do you wish you had more of in bed… romance, experimentation or foreplay? Foreplay.
4. What do you thinks makes a kiss great? Physical chemistry and experience.
5. Describe your sex life in two words. Not enough.

Bonus (as in optional): Do you remember a time when you were having sex that you smile or even laugh about now? Do tell….

Years ago my then-boyfriend and I took a cruise. If you’ve ever cruised before, you know that you typically have a dedicated room attendant who takes care of your room every day of the cruise. He or she not only makes up the room, but turns down the bed, sometimes delivers room service and handles any special requests you might have. Our room attendant, a man, had been incredibly helpful to us. One night we were skipping dinner to have sex when our room attendant came into the room. (He knew we should have been at dinner at the time, hence the fact that he didn’t knock.) He immediately put his hands over his eyes and started to back out of the room while both apologizing and asking us if we needed anything. Iadmit it, I love food (and I was missing dinner), so I called out to him, “Before you leave, can I have the chocolates that you were going to put on my pillow?” He set the chocolates on a ledge by the door before leaving. My boyfriend burst out laughing and said something, “What a life. I get to fuck you while you have another man bringing you chocolates.”